They are very proud of it, but when they have it, they face two experiences
1) Their girlfriends lose their virginity:
This is a terrible danger. When a friend tells her what she has done with her boyfriend, she always wants to do that. When she finds life interesting, she decides to have a boyfriend and give it to that person. for a while the act seems good but later when she has a fight with the person it makes her live in a sea of regret.
2) Forced : this is considered in both forms
↪️ Force herself to give because she loves her boyfriend without wanting to give :
When we look at this, it was her first hot love and he seduced her and if she had a fight with him, she would marry him as if she would never find such a lover again.
just like that, he seduces her with their talk, hits her in the chest because he tells her mince talk, sends a bullet of love to her heart and then hides it from her tomorrow and reaches her like that biblical passage of Genesis 34/3-5
↪️ When she is unexpectedly raped :
Such acts happen in many places in forms that they can even sue e.g
Just going to talk to each other and putting medicine in food and drink is like making her unconscious; it is rape by doing things to a mentally adooche self-consciousness. this is difficult.
She didn’t know what she had done until he reached her and washed her clothes back and put her to sleep. when I say she really sees but she is not asleep. she experiences painful entry, inability to sit as usual and urinate.
– such people think they are virgins unless he tells them he did
Men like that, fear God and stop
forced rape ; in the countryside, along rivers, in meadows, and in various places. in urban areas, they forcibly rape children by pretending to love them.
↪️ They rob buses and taxis and forcibly take them away and rape them.
Rape by brothers ; 2samuel 13/11 And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. said. 12 But she said, Nay, my brother, do not force me: for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
3) If you humiliate me, what will I do? Where do I go?
And how are you? You will be one of the shameful things in Israel; tell the king, and he will not refuse to give me to thee. 14 But he would not hearken unto her voice: and he lay with her, and humbled her.
So if you don’t have a virginity, you have to do things.
1) Honesty;
Faithfulness is better than virginity, but many people who marry in virginity lose faithfulness. others marry without virginity and have special loyalty, so after they fall in love
In fact, it is better to tell him about her experience before falling in love and convince him that he wants them to get married and rule their house in good faith.
2) Have a positive self-image;
Losing your virginity should not make you have a negative outlook on your life. this means that even if you get married, it is your humanity that will always stay with you.
3) working for your goals ;
Many people work hard on their goals instead of thinking about what is happening to them. When they reach their goals, they say that any man is a woman with a purpose even though virginity is necessary.
in general girls never give of their own free will some are cheated, some are forced, some are friends so my message to men is to be properly aware.
does anyone have a virginity? Does she have videos and pictures of anyone else? it seems to have gone back to saying so caution is needed
I urge our men to identify with her honesty and experience and live happily in your homes with good understanding.
Shamarran durbummaa isaanii baay’ee jallatu,
Baay’ee ittin of jaju garuu yeroo qaban sana mudannoo lamatu isaan mudataa
1) Hiriyaan shamarranii isaanii durbumma dhabuu:
Kunii balaa hamaadha hiriyaan tokkoo waan jaalallee ishee wajjin goote dhuftu yeroo itti himtu waan sana gochuuf yeroo hundaa hawwuu, ‘life’ sun hawwataa ta’ee yeroo itti mul’atu jaalallee tokko qabatte nama sanaaf kennuu murteessiti. yeroof gochi sun gaarii itti fakkaatus boodarra nama sanaan gaafa wal dhabduu galaana gaabbii daakaa akka jiraattu ishee godha.
2) Dirqisiifamuu : kun bifa lamaan ilaalamaa
↪️ Kennuu utuu hin barbaadin sababa jaalallee ishee jaallattuf kennuuf of dirqisiisu :
kana gaafa ilaallu yeroon sun isheef jaalala ho’aa isa jalqabaa waan ta’eef innis ishee waan sosobee garaa laaffifatuuf yoo isa wajjin wal dhabde akka waan jaalalle akkasii deebitee hin arganneetti akkasuma waan fuudhu waan itti fakkaatuf yeroo hundumaa sammuu isaa eeguuf jechaa of dirqamsiifti.
akkuma kanaa haasa isaan sossobamaa, haasa minyaa waan itti dubbatuuf garaa ishee rukutaa, onnee isheetti rasaasa jaalala erga ergee booda waan borii jalaa dhoksee ishee bira gahaa akka kutaa macaafa qulqulluu uumama 34/3-5 sana jechuudha.
↪️ Yeroo isheen hin yaadin humnaan gudeddii irratti raawwatu :
Esheen akkasii kunii iddoowwaan baay’eetti bifa isaan seerattille himachuu dandeenyeen mudataa fkn
Waliin haasa’uu qofaaf deemanii qoricha nyaata fi waan dhugamuu keessa buusun akka of wallaaltu gochuudha; waantotaa sammuu adooche of wallaalchisu irratti raawwachuun gudeedudha. kunii ulfaatadha.
Hamma inni ishee bira gahee dhiiga sanaa irra dhiqee uffanna ishee itti deebisee tasgabbeesse ofirra raffisee jedhu yeroo sana waan goote waan hin beekneef yeroo isheen of bartuu “maanni baay’ee rafteem eda raftee hin bullemoo?” yeroo jedhuun dhuguma seeti garuu rafiiti miti. galtee dhukkubbiin itti dhaga’aamu, dandeesse akka duriitti taa’uu fi fincaa’uu dadhabudhan mudatamti.
– namonnni akkasii yoo inni kana godhe itti hime malee waan durbummaadhan jiraniitti of yaadu
Dhiironni akkasii waaqayyoon sodaadhaa dhiisaa
gudeddaa humnaanii ; baadiyyaatti karaa lagaa, bakka qoraanii fi iddoo addaa addaattidha. nannoo magaalaatti immoo jaalala fakkeessanii ijollee mana barumsaa hambisuun humnaan qabanii gudeedu.
Baajajii fi taaksii liccisanii humnaan fuudhanii deemanii gudeedudha.
Obbolaadhan gudeedamuu ; 2samuel 13/11 Yeroo isheen nyaata dhi’eessiteefitti, inni immoo ishee qabee, “Obboleettii ko, kottuutii anaa wajjin ciisi!” jedhe. 12 Isheen garuu, “Lakkii yaa obboleessa ko, ana hin salphisin! Wanti akkasii Israa’el keessatti hojjetamuun hin ta’u; atis wanta yeellaasisaa akkasii hin hojjetin!
3) Yoo ana salphifte, ani attaman ta’a? Eessan dhaqas?
Atis attam taata? Biyya Israa’el keessatti warra wanta yeellaasisaa hojjetan keessaa tokko in taata; mootichatti himadhu, innis sitti na heerumsiisuu hin didu!” jette. 14 Inni garuu isheedhaaf dhaga’uu hin barbaanne; humna waan ishee caaluuf ishee wajjin ciisee, ishee in salphise.
kanaafikaa durbummaa hin qabdu taanaan waantota gochuu qabdu.
1) Amanamummaa;
Amanamummaan durbummarra ni caalaa, namni baay’een durbummaan heerumee garuu amanamumma dhaba. warreen kaan immoo durbumma malee heerumanii amanamumma addaa qabu, kanaaf erga gara jaalalaatti seenaniin booda
Dhugumatti utuu jaalala keessa hin seeniin mudannoo ishee itti himuun yoo inni fedha isaan itti seenuu barbaada ta’ee amansiisuun yoo waliin gaa’eela qabatanii amanamummaa gaariin mana isaanii seerratan gaariidha.
2) Ilaalcha gaarii ofiif qabaachuu;
Durbummaa dhabuun akka ati jireenya keef ilaalcha gaarii hin qabaanne si gochuu hin qabu. kana jechuun yoo heerumtes kan si wajjin yeroo hundumaa hafuu namummaa kee waan ta’eef dogoggora uumameef waaqayyoon araara kadhachaa ofii keerratti xiyeeffachuun barbaachisaadha.
3) kaayyoo keef hojjechuu ;
Namonni hedduun isa isaan irratti ta’ee yaadu dhiisanii kaayyoo isaanii irratti dhimmanii hojjetu yeroo kana galma isaanii gaafa gahaan dhiirri kamiyyuu utuu durbummaan barbaachisa ta’ee jiru dubartii kaayyoo qabduudha jechuun kaayyoo ishee fi gaa’eela isa wal simsiisuun jireenya gaarii jiraatanii darbu.
walumaa galatti shamarran fedha isaanittin tasuma hin kennan tokkiin gowwwomsamanii, tokkiin humnaan, tokkiin hiriyaadhan waan ta’eef dhiironni sirritti hubannoo akka qabattan dhaamsa kooti.
namni durbummaa qabdii? jechuu dhiisee video fi suuraa nama biraa qabdii? gara jechuutti waan deebi’ee fakkaata kanaaf of eeggannoon barbaachisaadha jechaa
dhiironni keenya amanamummaa fi mudanno ishee irratti ta’ee adda baasun wal hubannaa gaariin mana keessanitti gammaddanii akka jiraattan dhaamsa kooti.
Waan dubbiftaniif galatoomaa!
