What should men expect in a romantic relationship?
In love, a man must expect many things in order to be stable, happy, and in a healthy relationship. I will list 7 of the most important and fundamental of these here:
1) Respect himself and his lover (Respect)
A person who loves you should respect you; he will not insult you or belittle you. You must respect yourself and respect him. True love begins with respect.
2) Honesty & Transparency
A lie destroys a relationship. The truth makes it easier for you to resolve even unpleasant things together.
➡️ Men should tell the truth and listen to the truth.
3) Mutual understanding of each other’s needs, culture, and behavior
↪️ A man should express his desires openly,
And his boyfriend has to pave the way for her to express herself.
It is important to respect each other’s culture and religion.
➡️ Agreeing on what the two disagree about is the solution.
4) Emotional Safety
True love is a feeling of peace of mind.
↪️ When you spend time with your lover,there is no fear of yourself;
It should not hurt you in any way. If you can express your feelings accurately, you are in true love.
5) Unity and Participation (Partnership, not ownership)
↪️ A woman is with you not because you are her “father” but because she is with you as a partner. And you must be her helper and cooperator, not just control and command Love is not control, it is mutual help.
6)Support each other’s strengths and weaknesses (Support during ups and downs)
↪️If you have problems in life, You have to be there for her and so do you.It’s not always just about sharing happiness; true help in trouble is known.
✅ 7) Mental and physical boundaries
↪️ When you are in love, You don’t have to forget yourself. Anything that hurts you (emotional, physical, food, or verbal) must be guarded.
If a man is in love, he should expect these things:
respect, openness, cooperation, peace of mind, mutual interest, unity, prudence.
Hariiroo jaalalaa keessatti dhiironni maal eeggachuu qabu?
Hariiroo jaalalaa keessatti dhiironni maal eeggachuu qabu?
Jaalala keessatti dhiirri tokko akka tasgabbaa’e, gammadee, walitti dhufeenya fayyaa qabu keessatti jiraatuuf wantoota hedduu akka eeggatu dirqama. Kana keessaa ijoo fi bu’uuraa tahan 7 asitti isiniif tarreessa:
1) Kabaja ofii fi jaalallee isaa eeguu (Respect)
Namni si jaalatu si kabajuu qaba; si hin arrabsu, si hin xiqqeessu.Atiis of kabajuu fi isa kabajuu qabda. Jaalalli dhugaa kabaja irraa jalqaba.
2) Dhugaa fi Iftoomina (Honesty & Transparency)
Sobni tokko walitti dhufeenya balleessa. Dhugaan, wanta hin tolle illee akka waliin furmaata argattan taasisa.
➡️ Dhiironni dhugaa dubbachuu fi dhugaa dhaggeeffachuu qabu.
3) Fedhii, Aadaa, fi Amalaa waliif kabajuu (Mutual understanding)
↪️ Dhiirri tokko fedhii isaa ifatti ibsachuu qaba,
Akkasumas jaalalleen isaas akka of ibsitu karaa banuu qaba.
Aadaa fi amantii walii kabajuun barbaachisaa dha.
➡️ Waan lamaan walii hin galle irratti walii galuun furmaata.
4) Emotional Safety (Tasgabbii Sammuu fi Miiraa)
Jaalalli Sirriin miira sammuu keessa tasgabbiin jiraachu danda’u dha.
↪️ Jaalallee kee waliin yeroo dabarsitu,of sodaachuun hin jiru;
Karaa kamiin si miidhuu hin qabdu. Yoo miira kee sirriitti ibsachuu dandeesse, jaalala dhugaa keessa jirta jechuu dha.
5)Tokkummaa fi Hirmaannaa (Partnership, not ownership)
↪️ Dubartiin si waliin jirtu sababa ati “abbaa” ishee taateef osoo hin taane si waliin akka hiriyyaa(partner) tti waan jirtuuf. Ati immoo gargaaraa fi tumsituu ishee ta’uu qabda, to’annaa fi ajaja qofa miti Jaalalli to’annaa miti, wal gargaarsa.
6) Cimina fi laafina waliif birmachuu (Support during ups and downs)
↪️Yoo jireenya keessatti rakkinni mudate, Ati ishee bira jiraachuu qabda isiinis akkasuma.Yeroo hundumaa gammachuu qofaa walii qooduu miti; rakkina keessatti gargaarsi dhugaa beekama.
✅ 7) Of eeggannoo sammuu fi qaamaa (Mental and physical boundaries)
↪️ Jaalala keessa yoo jirtu, Of dagachuun hin barbaachisu. Wanti si miidhu kamiyyuu (miira, qaama, nyaata, ykn jecha) eeggachuu qabda.
Dhiirri tokko jaalala keessa yoo jiru, wantoota kana eeggachuu qaba:
kabaja, iftoomina, wal tumsuu, tasgabbii sammuu, fedhii walii, tokkummaa, of eeggannoo.
