A professor asked his students during lunch, “Why do people talk so loudly when they get angry?
After a little thought, one of the students said, “I think it’s because they have lost their discipline.”
The professor replied, “But the man is with him. He will make it sound even if he speaks softly. Why did he have to speak loudly?” He asked the guy.
With no one to answer, the Professor began to explain.
When two people get angry, their hearts are very far apart. I need a loud voice to hear each other at this distance. The angrier they are, the louder they shout at each other in the distance. “ he said again;
What happens when two people fall in love?
They don’t yell at each other, they talk to each other in soft voices, because their hearts are close to each other and the distance between them shrinks.
↪️ When they love each other so much they don’t even make a sound they agree with signs/ signs,
↪️ When they love each other very much they don’t even need luck, they listen to each other, understand each other, and agree with each other even if they look each other in the eye. “ he advised and left.
The message of this post: Anger , openness, and loudness are signs of a distance between the two hearts.
The goal, then, should not be to win the conversation out loud, but to shorten the distance between the hearts.
This is by asking each other Questions
By listening to each other, by focusing on the same ideas, and finally when the hearts are close, it is to speak in a soft voice instead of speaking loudly, shouting, shouting and screaming.
Namootni gaafa walitti aaran maalif sagalee guddaa walitti dubbatu?
Pirofeesera tokkotu “ Namoonni gaafa walitti aaran maalif sagalee guddaan walitti dubbatu? “ jedhee yeroo laaqanaatti barattoota isaa gaafate.
Barattootni xiqqoo erga yaadanii booda inni tokko “ waan naamusa isaanii dhabaniif natti fakkaata.”
Pirofeeserichi deebisee “Garuu namichiwoo isa bira jiraa Sagalee laafaadhaan yoo dubbateyyuu ni dhageessifataa maalif sagalee guddaa dubbachuun barbaachisee?” Jedhee gaafate.
Namni deebisu dhibnaan Pirofeeserichi ibsuufii eegale.
Namootni lama gaafa walitti aaran onneen isaanii baayyee addaan fagaata. Fageenya kana irratti wal dhageessisuuf sagalee guddaatuisaan barbaachisa. Hanguma aaran sana sagalee guddaan fageenya sana irratti wal dhageesaifatu. “ jedhee ammas;
Namoonni lama gaafa wal jaallatan maaltu ta’a?
Walitti hin iyyan, sagalee laafaadhaan walitti dubbatu, sababni isaas onneen isaanii walitti dhiyoo waan ta’eef fageenyi gidduu isaanii ni xiqqaata.
↪️ Gaafa baayyyee wal jaallatan ammoo sagaleeyyuu hin dhageessisan mllattoodhaan/ milikkitaan walii galu,
↪️ Gaafa baayyee baayyee wal jaallatan ammoo milkkitniyyuu isaan hin barbaachisu ija keessa wal ilaalaniiyyuu wal dhageesaifatu, wal hubatu, walii galus. “ jedhee gorsee biraa deeme.
Dhaamsa maxxansa kanaa: Dheekkamuun , bannanuun, sagalee guddaa dubbachuun mal’attoo fageenya onnee lamaan gudduutti argamuuti.
Kaayyoon egaa waliin dubbii sagalee guddaadhaan mo’achuu utuu hin taane addaan fageenya onnee gidduu jiru sana gabaabsuu ta’uu qaba.
Kunis Gaaffii waliif kaasuudhaan
Wal dhaggeeffachuudhaan, yaada wal fakkaataa irratti xiyyeeffachuudhaan, dhumarratti gaafa onneen walitti dhiyaatu sagalee guddaa dubbachuu, iyyuu, wacuufi caraanuu utuu hin taane sagalee laafaadhaan haasa’uudha.
