Advice for All Women
↪️ A person who takes advice to heart is a person with a positive outlook and hope for the future.
Everyone is a sharp person,learns from others,looks at themselves I wrote this because many girls have a low attitude towards their marriage.
Especially now that our respect for marriage has declined.
A prudent man receiveth counsel: but a fool despiseth counsel.
girls measure your attitude by this,whether you are married or planning to get married and are waiting for the road this is a camel for you,the camel of life.
1) Never forget that your husband married you, you have to fulfill your responsibilities and duties so that nothing special happens.
2) Don’t tell your family and friends about your husband’s weaknesses, as it may become an obstacle in your life in the future.
3) Never disturb your husband for any reason,
Because this is a sign of disrespect.
4) Never use your attitude and mood to talk to your husband, because you don’t know what your husband might interpret.
5) Never compare your husband to other men,
because they do not know what the secret of their lives is.
6) Never try to form a relationship with your husband’s friend,because you can’t make love with them,
because there is something that needs to be told to them
7) Never agree with someone who cares about your husband, because people make differences between people, know that you are the only one responsible for your husband.
8) Never hold on to your husband if he is empty handed and you are in trouble, except to encourage him.
9) Never be a wasteful wife, or your husband may waste more than you.
10) Never answer your husband’s opinions, arguments and opinions on the people, let him answer them.
And maybe because it can answer the verse.
11) Never fight your husband in front of the children, because a woman who knows him will not do this.
12) Don’t forget to affirm your husband’s beauty, before he asks you to finish beautifying himself.
13) Never let your friend form a bond with your husband.
15) Never rush to the bathroom and get dressed, because your husband will not be upset.
16) Your family or friends should not mention your marriage after you are married, you should not waste your time on their words, unless you are forced to leave them.
17) Never focus on wealth, even if you earn more money.
18) Don’t forget that your husband wants to listen thoughtfully, your thoughts should not be preoccupied with him.
Because a good deal is the joy of one’s life.
19) During negotiations if your ideas work above His never evaluate yourself above them, because this is working together.
20) Do not exercise authority over your husband, for the husband is the head of the wife.
21) A weak wife is a what-cares me wife, she doesn’t even know that her body is hidden.
22) Does your husband like a good kind of food?? Try to improve the quality of your food, because the husband does not make fun of food.
23) Never argue(fight) with your husband, Use all the time you have legally to increase your wealth.
24) Prepare a burchuqqo (water carrier) before your husband’s arrival, so that when anyone comes to your house.
25) Don’t date a woman who has a negative attitude about marriage.
26) It is worth it for you to build a house, according to your own views, but it is not worth it to hate yourself.
27) Children are a blessing (gift) from God, so love your children and teach them properly.
28) You should never be old enough to control your home, and for no reason should you ever lose the thought and space you have for your home and family.
29) A prayerful wife is very powerful, Always for your husband and family Advice for All Women
Gorsa Dubartoota Hundaaf
↪️ Namni goorsa sammuutti fudhaatuu nama ilaalchaa gaariifi abdii boorii qabuudha.
namni kamiyyuuu naman qaramaa,namarraa barataa,of ilaalaa jiraata kanaa kanan barreesseef ilaalchii shamarraan hedduun gaa’ilaa isaaniif qaban gadi aanaa waan ta’eefiidha.
kessuumattuu yeroo ammaa kaabajni ga’ilaaf qabnuu waan gadi bu’eefidha.
namni hubaatan goorsaa fudhaata,namni gowwaan garuu gorsaa tuffaata.
shaamarran ilaalchaa kessaan kanaan maadala,warrii herumtaanis ta’ee kan heruumuuf karoorfattanii karaa egaa jirtaanis kun isiinif gaaladha,gaalaa jireenyaati.
1) Gonkumaa hin irraanfatiin akka abbaan manaa kee sii fuudhe, waan addaa akka hin uumamneef itti gaafatamummaa fi dirqama kee bahuu qabda.
2) Dadhabina abbaa manaa keetii maatii kee fi hiriyyaa keetti hin himiin, gara fulduraatti gufuu jireenya kee ta’uu waan danda’uuf.
3) Gonkumaa sababa tokkoof jettee abbaa manaa kee hin jeeqin,
kun mallattoo wal kabajuu dhiisuu waan ta’eef.
4) Gonkumaa ilaalcha kee fi gamnummaa (mood) fayyadamtee abbaa manaa keetti hin dubbatiin, abbaan manaa kee maalitti hiikkachuu akka danda’u waan hin beeknef.
5) Gonkumaa abbaa manaa kee dhiirota kan biraan hin madaalin,
dhoksaan jireenya isaani maal akka ta’e waan hin beeknef.
6) Gonkumaa hiriyyaa abbaa manaa keetii waliin hidhata uumuuf hin yaalin,isaan waliin jaalala uumuun waan siif hin danda’amneef,
waan isaanitti himamu qabuuf abbaan manaa keeyyuu jira waan ta’eef
7) Gonkumaa nama waa’ee abbaa manaa keetii xiiyyeefatu wajjiin wali hin galiin, namni garaagarummaa nama gidduutti waan uumuuf, waa’ee abbaa manaa keetiif itti gaafatamtuun sii qofa ta’ uu beeki.
8) Gonkumaa abbaa manaa keetti hin qaabamiin yoo inni harka duwwaa ta’ee raakkinni isin mudate, jajjabeessuu irraan kan hafe.
9) Gonkumaa haadha manaa qisaasessituu hin ta’iin, yoos abbaan manaa kee immoo sin olitti qisaasessuu waan danda’uuf.
10) Gonkumaa yaada, falmii fi filannoo uummata irratti abbaa manaa keef hin deebisiin, innumti haa deebisuuti.
Akkasumas tarii kan keeyyuu deebisuu waan danda’uuf.
11) Gonkumaa abbaa manaa kee ijoolle fulduratti hin loliin (wal hin dhabiin), dubartii beektuun kana hin gootu waan ta’eef.
12) Bareedina abbaa manaa keetii mirkaneessuu hin dagatiin, utuu inni of bareechee xumuree sin gaafatin.
13) Gonkumaa hiriyyaan kee abbaa manaa kee waliin hidhata akka uumtu hin eyyamiin.
15) Gonkumaa yeroo mana fincaani fi yeroo uffataa hin ariifatiin,abbaan manaa kee kanaan waan hin mufanneef.
16) Maatiin kee yookaan hiriyyaan kee erga heerumtee waa’ee heeruma kee yaada kaasu hin qaban, jecha isaan jedhaniif yeroo kee gubuu hin qabdu, yoo isaan dhiisuun si dirqamsiise dhiisu qabda malee.
17) Gonkumaa yaadni kee qabeenya irratti kan xiiyyeefatu ta’uu hin qabu, yoo qarshii isa ol kan argattu ta’ellee walitti fiduu qabda malee.
18) Hin irraanffatiin abbaan manaa yaadaan dhaggeeffachuu barbaadaati, yaadni kee qabamaa itti ta’uu hin qabu.
Walii galtee gaariin gammachuu jireenya ofiiti waan ta’eef.
19) Yeroo marii yoo yaadni kee kan Isaa olitti hojjetu ta’e gonkumaa ofii kee isaan olitti of hin madaaliin, kun waliin hojjechuu waan ta’eef.
20) Abbaa manaa kee irratti ol aantummaa hin fudhatiin, abbaan manaa mataa haadha manaa waan ta’eef.
21) Haati manaa dadhabduun maal-na dhibdee haadha manaati, isheen qaamnumti isheeyyuu akka dhokfamu hin beektu.
22) Abbaan manaa kee akaakuu ittoo nyaataa gaarii fedhaa?? Haala ittoo nyaata kee foyyeessuu yaali, abbaan manaa nyaatatti waan hin qoosneef.
23) Gonkumaa abbaa manaa keetiin hin morkatiin(wal hin dhabiin), Yeroo qabdu hunda seeran fayyadami qabeenyi kee akka dabaluuf.
24) Dhufaatii abbaa manaa keen dura burchuqqoo (baattuu bishaanii) qopheessii kaa’i, akkasumas namni kamiyyuu mana kee yeroo dhufuuf.
25) Dubartii waa’ee heerumaa ilaalcha gadhee qabdu wajjiin walitti dhufeenya hin uumiin.
26) Mana dhaabuun kee siif gatii qaba, innis akka ilaalcha mataa keetittidha, of jibbaa jiraachuun garuu gatii hin qabu.
27) Ijoolleen eebba (kennaa) waaqayyooti, kanaaf ijoollee kee jaall’adhuuti sirritti isaan barsiisi.
28) Ati Gonkumaa mana kee to’achuuf dulluma hin qabaatiin, sababa kamiinuu yaada fi bakka atii manaa fi maatii keef qabdu gonkumaa hirr’achuu hin danda’iin.
29) Haati manaa kadhaannaatti jabaattuun baayyee aboo qabeettiidha, Yeroo hunda abbaa manaa kee fi maatii keetiif Gorsa Dubartoota Hundaaf
