The Importance of Virginity
and if it is too much for you, read it patiently, even if someone dies.
To be honest, we don’t talk about it, but everyone thinks about it, they are worried, and no one doesn’t know, but they see it as a shame. such attitude is having a negative impact on our generation because they are ashamed to speak what man has taken out of it and the generation has lost advice and gone astray so let’s talk about what the bible says in depth on this issue together.
Before entering the book, virginity plays an important role in establishing the pillars of marriage. just as ” The head of the church is Christ and the head of the wife is the husband,” he links marriage and the church together, so just as the church is founded on blood, so marriage is founded on blood. swallow it forcibly, even if it is as bitter as a blessing.
The Bible speaks in various places Ezekiel 23/3 says “And they committed whoredoms in the land of Egypt: in their youth they played the harlot; there their breasts were touched, and the head of their virginity was bruised.
Although this passage mentions the nation of Israel’s fall into a life of adultery or idolatry, it tells us that the identity of the virgin and virginity is equated. This passage can be taught in both directions
↪️ When the people are separated from God and living a life of abandonment, when they abandon the glory of the spiritual life of childhood and reject their love for God and live with strangers as well
↪️ He tells us how a girl loses her virginity before she is ready for marriage
A) We reach ; the bullet that conjures a woman’s heart and prepares her for sex is a reach. as the proverb in the community says ” a woman and a fox love a hooker” girls need to be careful of this.
B) Breast suction
Another area where girls are defeated for love is breast touching. so he made the case of those two children an example for the bible to teach us : when a man is about to go to a woman he starts with nipple touching, kissing and circumcision. this is very important for couples. but for the unmarried it is a very serious danger.
What happens to girls who give their virginity out of wedlock?
1) Return to the road ;
Abot 11/37,38 37 “Then she said to her father, “First, let me have one request of you. Give me two months, that I may go up and down upon the mountains, and bewail my virginity, I and all my companions. she said the Israelites blamed themselves for being back on track when they experienced this and when we returned to our country it used to be like that but now it seems like if you carry your virginity you blame yourself so it is not hard to imagine where the generation is going.
2) Exposure to psychological abuse;
When she says, “I’m going to go with my friends to the mountains to cry for two months…” you see that her mind is damaged and sadly exposed. Life is lived psychologically.
3) They will be embarrassed; Deuteronomy 22 /17 “behold, he hath yet spoken shamefully, saying, I have not found the tokens of thy daughter’s virginity”
Among the Israelites, loss of virginity was considered a shameful thing, and it is no different among us. but now it is considered trivial. but I will tell you that it is worth it.
So after they fall in love, Paul has something to say to us
1Cor 7/37 “But he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power as touching in his own heart, to keep his own virgin, shall do well. he says.
We learned from our childhood that it is a sin to fall in love and commit such acts, so it warns us that if we cannot keep our desires when we start dating, we need to stop before we fall into her virginity!
In general, your virginity is the pillar of your household. the importance is the guarantee of your marriage so bite and hold on.
Barbaachisummaa Durbummaa (Virgin)
yoo sinitti baay’ates obsumaan dubbisaa yoo namni du’eeyyuu salgan lama taa’u.
Dhugaa dubbachuuf baasne walitti hin dubbannu malee namni hunduu waa’ee kanaaf ni yaada, ni dhiphata namni hin beeknes hin jiru garuu akka yeelloo fi qaanii wayitti ilaalu. ilaalchi akkasii immoo dhiibbaa hamaa dhaloota keenyatti fidee dhufaa jira sababni isa namni keessaa baase dubbachuuf waan yeella’uuf dhaloonni gorsa dhabanii karaa irraa mancaaniiru egaa dhimma kana irratti gadi fageenyaan macaafni maal akka jedhu waliin irraa dubbanna.
utuu gara macaafatti hin seeniin dura durbummaan gaa’eela utubee dhaabu keessatti shoora olaanaa taphata. akkuma ” Mataan waldaa kiristaana kiristoosin ta’ee mataan haadha manaa abbaa manaati” jedhee gaa’eelaa fi walda walitti hidhee nuuf ibsu, akkasuma waldaan kiristaana dhiigan utubamtee akkuma dhaabbatte gaa’eellis dhiigaan utubamee dhaabbata. kun akka eebichaa hadhaa’uus humnumaan liqimsi.
Macaafni qulqulluun iddoowwan garagaraatti ni dubbata Hisq 23/3 akkas jedha “isaan biyya Gibxiitti in ejjan; isaan ijoollummaa isaaniitti ejjuu jalqaban; achitti harmi isaanii in qaqqabame, mataan harma durbummaa isaaniis in sukkuumame.”
kutaan kun sabni isiraa’eel jireenya ejjummatti ykn waaqa tolfamaatti kufuu isaanii haa kaasuyyu malee eenyummaa durba fi durbummaa waliin wal fakkeesse nutti dubbata kutaa kana kallatti lamman irratti barsiisun ni danda’aama
↪️ Sabichii waaqayyoottii adda bahee jireenya gadhiisi jiraachuu isaa yeroo tahuu, ulfina jireenya hafuura isa ijollummaa gadhiisuu fi jaalala waaqayyoof qabu ganee orma waliin jiraachu isaa yeroo tahuu akkasumas
↪️ Durbii tokkoo gaa’eelaaf osoo hin gahiin akkamittin akka durbumma dhabdu nuuf kaasa innis
A) Qaqqabanna ; rasaasni onne dubartii falfalee salqunnamtii saalaf qopheessu qaqqabbannadha. akkuma mammaksa hawwaasa keessatti ” dubartii fi adurree hoossa jaallatti” jedhu shamarraan kanarraa of eeggachuun barbaachisaadha.
B) Sukkummii harmaa
Dirreen shamarraan jaalalaf itti injifatamaan keessaa inni biraan harma qaqqabatamuudha. kanaaf dhimma ijolleee lamman sana fkn godhe macaafni nu barsiisuuf : dhirrii tokko dubartii bira dhaquuf yeroo jedhu qaqqabanna harmaa, dhungannaa fi xaxxaraguu dhaqnaatin eegala. kun warra wal fuudhan biratti baay’ee barbaachisaadha. kan hin fuunef hin heerumne biratti garuu baay’ee balaa hamaadha.
Shamarran durbummaa gaafa gaa’eelan ala kennan maal ta’uu?
1) Karaadha deebi’uu ;
Abot 11/37,38 37 “Itti dabaltee abbaa isheetiin, “Dura garuu waan tokkittii ani si kadhadhu anaaf raawwadhu! Dhaqee tulluu irra asii fi achi deddeebi’ee durboota hiriyoota koo wajjin durbummaa kootiin karaadhaa deebi’uu kootiif akkan boo’utti ji’a lamaaf yeroo anaaf kenni!” jette isira’eelonni gaafa mudannoo kanaan mudatamaan karaadhan deebi’ee jedhanii of ceepha’uu. gara biyya keenyatti yeroo deebinuus dur akkas ture amma garuu waan yoo durbummaa baatte adeemtu of ceephaatu fakkata kanaaf garamitti akka dhaloonni adeemu tilmaamuun nama hin dhibu.
2) Miidhaa xiinsammuutin saaxilamuudha;
Yeroo “hiriyoota koo wajjin dhaqee gaara irratti ji’aa lamaaf akkan bo’uuf…” jettuu xiinsammun ishee akka miidhame gaddaan saaxilamee argita. Jireenyii kan jiraatamuu xiinsammuudha.
3) Ni yeellasifamuu;
K/Deebi 22 /17 “kunoo ammas dubbii nama yeellaasisuun, ‘Ani milikkita durbummaa intala keetii hin arganne”…..
Isira’eeloota biratti durbummaa dhabuun dubbii yeellaasisaa ykn maqaa gadhee akka ta’eetti ilaalama nu birattis kanarraa fagoo miti. amma garuu akka waan salphaa ta’eetti ilaalama jira. ani garuu jala mureen sitti himaa gatii guddaa qaba.
Egaa jaalalatti erga seenanii booda phaa’uulos waan nun jedhu qaba
1Qor 7/37 “Namni tokko immoo fuudhaaf wanti isa giddisiisu hin jiru yoo ta’e, fedha foon isaatiis mo’achuu yoo danda’e, yaaduma garaa isaatiin in dhaabata; inni kun yaada garaa isaa muree kaadhima isaa durbummaatti yoo dhiise ba’eessa gochuu isaa ti.” jedha.
Jaalalatti seenanii gochaawwan akkasii raawwachuunii cubbuu akka ta’ee xinnoo keenya irraa kaane baranne, kanaaf jaalala eegalanii fedhii ofii eegu dadhabnaan utuu durbummaa isheetti hin bu’iin dhiisun barbaachisa akka ta’ee nu akeekkachiisa!
