What should a man do before he gets married?

↪️ He should pray to God to give him a good wife.

1) He should love a God-fearing girl who knows the morals of the community.

2) If the girl he loves is harassing him by telling him to do this and that, he should end the relationship between the two of them.

3) When he talks to her on the phone, he should only say things that are necessary.

There is no need to cry about the news in the city.

4) You don’t have to talk to him on the phone for more than an hour.

Five minutes of choice words is enough.

5) He should not show himself to her with property that does not belong to him.

  This means, for example, that he should not drive someone’s car or motorcycle near her.  What do I do when the girl refers to him and says where is the car then?  so he should beware of such things.

6) Have you had breakfast frequently?

Have you had lunch?  Have you had dinner?  no need to ask how can a person live without food and in general don’t waste your time and her time with unnecessary words!  Words like that make you look stupid.

Counseling is the Medicine of the Mind

✓ Don’t ignore the advice of someone who helps you.
✓I am the wiser don’t overdo it there is someone who knows better than you.
✓ Don’t despise the poor, tomorrow he will become a man.
✓ Don’t rush to fight, you may get hurt.
✓ Don’t walk the path you don’t know.
✓ Don’t hate someone who talks about your evil, tomorrow he will talk about your goodness.
✓ Don’t just say let mine be better, you’ll lose someone to listen to you.
✓ Don’t forget history, you pass it on to the next generation
✓ Don’t sit back and think you know, there are so many things you don’t know.
✓ Don’t run to destroy, you will carry the one who destroys you.
✓ Don’t say everything is right and it may be wrong.
✓ Don’t give up, it will pass!
✓ Don’t think evil of others, you will remain evil.
✓ Don’t neglect work, you will become poor.
✓ Don’t be proud of your wealth, it will end tomorrow.

↪️ If your loved one turns his back on you, don’t immediately talk about his evil, you’ll regret it if you get back together.

Human Attitudes and Feelings

There are people who endure difficult situations, worries, and burdens of life and live with a smile on their faces. 

These, you cannot reach approximately the identity of the person until you approach them and talk to them, until you learn who they are in depth.  They just hold their fingers where the wound hurts and they don’t cry, they don’t even cry.  They lie and laugh to strengthen themselves;  and when they are hungry, they lie and are satisfied. 

Their amazing strength is that no matter how hard they suffer, they do not sell their identity and build a place where they do not deserve to stand.   It is their gift to endure hardship and live life with laughter

Similarly, the most difficult thing such people experience is that they have no one to believe them when they say, “I am in trouble, help me.  Because the way they live and the way people know them are different, their lives are like those of a weeping man walking in the rain.  No one sees their tears.  If they see it, they don’t understand it

Let the house count the number of people who realize that they are alone because they have no one to understand them and make decisions that leave them alone

Humanity wants someone who understands it, not someone who knows it.  If we understand someone’s problems and feelings, we have helped them a lot.

Dhiirri tokko utuu hin fuudhiin dura maal gochuu qaba?

↪️ Haadha manaa gaarii naaf kenni jedhee Waaqayyoon kadhachuu qaba.

1) Shamarree Waaqayyoon sodaattu kan safuu Haawwasaa beektu jaallachuu qaba.

2) Shamarreen inni jaallate sun, kana naaf godhi sana naaf godhi ittin jettee rakkisti taanaan jaalala lamaan isaanii gidduu jiru addaan kutuu qaba.

3) Gaafa bilbilaan itti haasa’u waantoota barbaachisan qofa itti dubbachuu qaba.

Oduu mandara keessaa coranii bo’uun hin barbaachisu.

4) Bilbilaan sa’a tokkoo ol itti dubbachuun dirqama miti.

Jechoota filatamoo ta’aniin daqiiqaa shan itti haasofnaan ga’aadha.

5) Qabeenya kansaa hin taaneen itti of agarsiisuu hin qabu.

Kana jechuun fakkeenyaaf konkoolaataa ykn maatoorii namaa oofee naannoo isheen jirtu deemuu dhiisuu qaba. Gaafa intalli itti eerumtee meerre konkoolaataan gaafasii jettuun akkam godha? kanaafuu waan akkanaa irraa of eeggachuu qaba.

6) Irra deddeebitee ciree nyaatteettaa?

Laaqana nyaatteettaa? Irbaata nyaatteettaa? jedhanii gaafachuun hin barbaachisu namni nyaata malee akkamitti jiraata walumaa gala jechooota hin barbaachifneen yeroo kee akkasumas yeroo ishee hin gubin! Jechooti akkas akkasii gowwaa si fakkeessa.

Gorsi Dawaa Sammuuti

✓ Gorsa namni si garsu hin tuffatin bakka itti si fayyadu qaba.
✓Anatu beekaa hin baay’isiin kan si caalaa beeku jira.
✓ Hiyyeessa hin tuffatin boru isatu nama ta’a.
✓ Lolaaf hin ariifatin, miidhamuu dandeessa.
✓ Karaa hin beekne irra hin adeemin.
✓ Nama hammeenya kee haasa’u hin jibbin, boru isumatu gaarummaa kee haasa’a.
✓ Kan koo qofti haa caalu hin jedhin, nama si dhaggeefatu dhabda.
✓ Seenaa hin dagatin, dhalootaaf dabarsita
✓ Beeka jettee hin taa’in, waan atii hin beekiin baay’eetu jira.
✓ Balleessuuf hin fiigin, kan si balleessuutti baata.
✓ Sirriidha jettee waanuma hunda hin haasa’in dogoggora qabaachuu mala.
✓ Abdii hin kutatin turullee siif dabarti!
✓ Jal’ina namatti hin yaadiin, jal’aa taatee hafta.
✓ Hojii hin tuffatin, hiyyoomtee haftaa.
✓ Qabeenyaan hin booniin bor ni dhumaa.
↪️ Namni ati jaallattu yoo dugda sitti gale daftee hammeenya isaa hin haasa’in, yoo walitti deebitan gaabbita.

Ilaalchafi Miira Dhala Namaa

Namoonni haala rakkisaa, dhimma yaaddoo isaanitti ta’uu fi ba’aa jireenyaa damdamatanii keessa isaaniitti ciniinnachuun kolfanii jiraatan jiru. Isaan kana, hanga itti siqxee wajjin haasoftutti, hanga gadi fageenyaan enyummaa isaanii bartutti tilmaamaan enyummaa namaa sanaa bira gahuu hin dandeessu. Bakka madaa’ee isaan dhukkubu qubaan qabaniima seeqaa jiraatu malee, hooqaniillee of hin boossisan. Of jabeessuuf sobanii kolfu; utuu beela’aniis sobanii quufu. Ciminni isaanii inni ajaayibsiisaan, hangamillee yoo rakkatan enyummaa isaanii gurguranii bakka dhaabbachuun isaaniif hin malle hin ijaajjan.  Rakkina obsaan, jireenya immoo kolfaan dabarsuun kennaa isaaniiti

Akkuma kana, rakkina namoonni akkasii dabarsan keessaa inni ulfaataan, “nan rakkadhee na gargaari” yoo jedhan nama isaan amanu hin qabani. Akki isaan itti jiraniifi akki namni itti isaan beeku gargari waan ta’eef, jireenyi isaanii akka nama boo’aa bokkaa rooba keessa deemuuti. Imimmaan isaanii namni hin argu. Yoo arganis hin hubataniif

Nama isaan hubatu dhabuu irraan kan ka’e namoonni akka kophaa jiran of hubachuun murtoo kophaatti isaan hambisu kan ofirratti murteessan manni haa lakkaa’u

Dhalli namaa, nama isa beeku utuu hin taane nama isa hubatu fedha. Nama tokki rakkoo inni keessa jiru, miira isaa yoo hubanne baayyee gargaarreerra jechuudha.

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